Watching Someone You Care About Hurt People Over a Rebound Relationship
The sad thing that a lot of people don’t realize when it comes to my best friend in the UK and ex alpha is that I know more than I let on, more than either me and him are saying.
Let me tell the full story of how things went after I connected with this guy when he got stood up.
After being stood up
So after the stood up by his ex, my friend did end up getting back with the guy an they started living together for a short time, after that my friend got walked out on and dumped.
Not long after this he gets into a relationship with a friend of his before jumping into the relationship with the guy he’s currently with and that guy had dumped his previous boyfriend not long before that.
This is sign number one that the relationship my friend is currently in is a rebound relationship. This happened within less than a 2 month period after he got left.
The second sign, as I mentioned before was he was trying to set his ex up. That was sign number two his current relationship is a rebound relationship cause he did this days before they were suppose to meet and then that’s when I saw his boyfriend do the things that showed me he didn’t love or care about my friend.
The third sign their relationship is a rebound is I got lied on over trying to warn him off from the guy and my feelings being falsely used and weaponized in the lie to make me out as a jealous pup after this situation.
After this lie I knew my friend was being manipulated. I started predicting and a few people can vouch for me that his boyfriend was going to get control of his pack and he was gonna stop being an alpha. I could see the manipulation the moment it started all cause my friend was in a messed up place when he started this relationship.
The fourth and fifth sign their relationship is a rebound relationship is after only spending a week together my friend moves in with this guy out of desperation cause he was going to be kicked out of his place. And not even 2 months after moving into together they are engaged and planning on getting married next year. Rushing the relationship.
The sixth sign that their relationship is a rebound relationship is when my friend got drunk and sent me nudes and talked about us messing around. I have talked to a few people and they do believe the alcohol was bringing his true feelings out.
The seventh sign is pretty much the back and forth stories. Eg. One minute he’s selling his stuff, the next he’s claiming that his boyfriend buys him everything he wants. Then you got the issue where I’m getting told his boyfriend gets mad that people are contacting him and then the next he’s telling me his boyfriend is encouraging him to come and see me.
The Damage the Rebound Has Done
So not only did this rebound relationship get me lied on but it got people I don’t even know turned on me cause they don’t know the full details of what all went on between the two of them that I watched and witnessed and no one talked to me. The truth is not only did my reputation get damaged by all this in the pup community over a rebound relationship but my pup persona got completely devastated not only by the lies and people turning on him but losing his alpha which he was trying to prevent. Because of all this I don’t want to be a pup anymore, how can anyone want to be part of a community that doesn’t get both sides of the story, where people can lie on someone to get their way and not only that the community condones this behavior and encourages rebound relationships and people getting hurt.
Not only that but while yes my friend is also responsible for listening to people, he’s been manipulated by a lot of people who don’t know all the facts and were encouraging him to continue to hurt me by keeping me cut off.
And I know people can say I should mind my own business but if he didn’t want me in his business he shouldn’t have drug me into all that drama to begin with or done half of what he’s done. Cause all the lying on me, all the misleading people, all the people not getting my side of the story is my business cause what’s been done to me cause people cannot stand up for right isn’t right to do to anyone all cause I saw the warning signs and knew he was being manipulated and trying to prevent myself from being hurt and not lose him but because no one could care I got hurt and my pup persona got devastated and lost his alpha.
This kind of injustice is disgusting. It makes the pup community look like nothing but a bunch of users and people who don’t stand up for each other and allow themselves to be lied to and bully someone who’s different or knows more than they do.
This is why I keep saying people need to stand up to wrong, if people had listened to me months ago and stood up for me when I got lied on instead of acting like it was no big deal and I needed to let it go and move on and being complicit in it my pup persona wouldn’t be sitting here without his alpha.
I have my best friend but I still despise his relationship and hope people will start standing up to what’s going on cause it’s not fair to me. I killed my pup persona cause of all this cause I don’t want to be associated to this. Who can be part of a community that is toxic and has unjust behaviors?
I didn’t deserve all this for wanting to protect my best friend and my pup persona’s alpha. It is a sad world we live in where this injustice can happen.