Rushed Relationships Are Not A Good Thing

Are you rushing your relationship? Are you quickly moving in with a person, getting engaged and planning on marrying in a short time frame? These are signs of insecurity by either both or one partners and possibly one partner taking advantage of the other.

Most people know a good healthy relationship doesn’t rush to move in with each or get engaged and married cause rushing a relationship dooms it to fail.

So why do people encourage something that can harm or hurt both people involved in such a relationship? Most people don’t speak because they feel it’s none of their business, even if they are friends with the person. Or if a person does speak out the people involved in the relationship usually shut the person out and don’t listen and you’ve lost a friend. Majority of the reason why is just lack of care for others.

Now let’s get on the partners involved in the rushed relationship. As I stated before most people who rush their relationships are insecure with themselves and so therefore are desperate to be loved. The other reason as stated before is to take advantage of a person. If a person is insecure and desperate to be loved then this is a very unhealthy thing to bring into a relationship because you should always love yourself first and take time to deal with any inner personal issues as you drag those into your relationship. As for those trying to take advantage of another person, that’s just lack of morals.

Rushed relationships do not usually last due to many key facts such as romance dying out early, lowers your expectations, can cause you to be an old married couple really quick and even problems that you have deep down inside, especially if your previous relationship ended very poorly or you were abused during the relationship, eventually will become a problem within the relationship.

So in the end rushing things will not work out, no matter how much a person deludes themselves into thinking it will, eventually a rushed relationship is more than likely going to fail and end and anyone trying to warn you is only looking out for you.