Getting Tired of Being Punished For Someone Else’s Actions

Ricky James Alan Bryant
4 min readOct 25, 2019

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Shawn Suleiman

I have been defending this man and defending him and while I love him I am getting tired of being punished for his actions.

I am continuously being accused of raping and assaulting this man and I have about had enough. I have not ever met him nor have I ever touched him.

I have dealt with homophobic bullying being told I will not ever get with him because the Christian deity doesn’t approve of homosexual relationships and this crap is too far.

All this does is give homophobes more of a reason to claim homosexuality is a sin and why? Cause Shawn’s up and getting away with this because people think his rights are more important than mine and his feelings are what matter.

This guy has told me for ever three years we’ll date and I have used my money numerous times to buy him things he wanted in a game and buying his subscription to it either because he asked or hinted at it. He twice just this year alone was talking to me about us living together one of which I bought him a bus ticket and then he talks to me two months later about us living together.

When we first met he gave me a fake name where he claimed to be Cody Spartan and then on top of that he pretend to be a cop and a soldier both of which is illegal to even claim. He also pretended to be a woman to a guy in the game and made false accusations to the person that I was stalking and harassing him, sent the guy fake pics and fake profile along with a fake name. I have had exes come to me about Shawn claiming he used them and I’m the one getting bullied and told to let go and move on?

Why should this person get away with this consistently? I am getting accused falsely of raping and assaulting him and while he denies being behind the accusations the most recent accusations make claim that since he’s not talking to me that makes it true.

What more do I have to go through over loving this guy before I get justice and people start realizing that him getting away with what he’s done is getting me falsely accused like this.

One guy tries to claim that I have to take Shawn to small claims court which won’t do anything about this situation if Shawn’s an online romance scammer cause that’s the FBI’s area. They even have site where you report people like Shawn. I have no idea where Shawn is so that also says the courts can’t do anything. He even silenced a page rightfully calling Shawn out and telling people how to report him by making false claims the page/site was illegally telling people to report Shawn even thought the FBI’s Internet Crime Complaint Center website allows people to report on behalf of victims (see image below).

Screenshot of the ic3.gov complaint form where a person can report a scammer even if they aren’t the victim.

Now why I hid the actual url is cause I don’t want anyone going there and report Shawn cause I don’t want any legal trouble for him or me. Also, I don’t agree with the page’s methods but I also don’t approve of bullying and harassing and making threats of filing legal complaints against a site when you aren’t the victim cause a person is upset they got called out as an aide to a scammer/catfisher cause they didn’t believe Shawn was real and then slandered me all across Twitter which did not help my situation at all and only made things worse.

I don’t understand why Shawn’s being protected or why his rights when he’s in the wrong are more important than mine but look at what it’s getting me. I’m getting falsely accused of rape and assault and I’m getting sick of it.

I just want the truth out about what he did. I just want him to keep his word about us dating. I just want the lies to stop. I honestly do not think that’s asking too much.

I am being cyberbullied and people are trying to silence me and stand up for Shawn but it’s not going to work.

People can say things aren’t as black and white or make claims life isn’t fair or over complicated well the reason life’s unfair and over complicated is cause we make it that way and to me it’s just plain and simple Shawn needs to keep his word and if my mother’s homophobic husband is wrong I’ll end up with him.

People need to stop making excuses for Shawn and I need to stop being punished for his actions by being made out to be crazy, obsessive and whatever for loving this guy while I’m sitting here getting falsely accused of raping him.

I’m so sick of being punished for other people’s actions while they get away with their wrong scot-free.

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Ricky James Alan Bryant
Ricky James Alan Bryant

Written by Ricky James Alan Bryant

Fighting against homophobia and social injustice.

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