Even a Therapist Agrees
So I talked to my therapist a lot about what I have endured in the pup community and she definitely agrees that racism is for sure playing a role in a lot of the bullying I’ve endured in the pup community but not only that she deemed the whole community toxic because it’s a group of white cisgender men with mental health issues and they are unhappy so my situation with Liam is now a weapon for them to use to make them feel good about themselves.
Why did my therapist point this out? Well, she pointed out how it is very unlikely that the pup community is unaware of how dangerous it is that a white man is slandering a person of color and that it’s putting my life at potential risk but not only that they are not allowing me to tell my side of the story to anyone without running to Liam’s pup, that Liam so happened to replace me with the day after he dropped me, my therapist said there is no way that wasn’t coincidence, and they are allowing a group of white men to play the victim as the pup claims he had no hand in Liam dropping me and even my therapist says that’s a lie due to the fact of them being alpha and pup just the very next day.
So can anyone else blame my therapist for saying the pup community is toxic? How is it a community that parades itself around as you being amongst friends allows white men to slander a person of color and put their life at risk? How is that being amongst friends when no one is standing up and, as my therapist put it, being no better than those who are silent in oppression? You know the statement “If you are neutral in the face of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor?” same applies for all wrongs, especially in a situation of white male privilege like mine where a white man slandering a person of color puts their life at risk. So how is that being amongst friends when they won’t even look out for you and tell the people who are lying to stop? I should be allowed to tell my side of things without people going to them and trying to start drama and problems, as well as allowing the white men to continue to play the victim by lying on me to people and continuing to put my life at risk.
And my therapist agrees this whole thing is a mess and even told me to take myself out of the pup community and offline to protect myself so no white supremacists will come after me over this whole situation.